Saturday, April 6, 2013

13. Week 12: Divorce, Remarriage & Aging Family

Hi. The semester is getting done!

In this week, we talked about divorce and remarriage.

Nowadays the rate of divorce is increasing.

So this lesson was important.

I don't want to get divorce or remarriage, but I need to prepare for a case.

Also, if i knew this stuff, it would help me understand those who from a single parent-family.

I understood that parents are really important in a family.

I want to be a good mother and last my family.

I am really appreciated that I have my bio parents still.

I enjoyed all of the lessons that i learned though this course.

Now I am pretty confident of my future family.

12. Week 11: Parenting

Hi.

In this week, we learned about parenting.

I have never thought about parenting before.

But, through this lesson, I became confident of parenting.

Unconsciously, I am used to my parents' style.

I think it is so true that children learned from their parents a lot.

I realized that I should raise my kids wisely in the future.

I really enjoyed the lesson.

11. Week 10: Fathers & Finances

Hi.

In this week, we talked about fatherhood and finances of family system.

I realized many things through this lesson.

And also it reminds me of my father a lot.

As I mentioned in the fatherhood paper, my dad is not a good example.

I really had hard time because of his incapability.

So I hope my husband would be the opposite person.

I really want my future children to be happy in my family.

I understood a father is really important in a family.

10. Week 09: Communication & Mutual Problem Solving

Hi.

In this week, we learned the strategies for mutual decisions in a family system.

What we've learned in this week really helped my understand good family systems.

Especially, the video "Elder Henry Eyering and Elder Cleon Skousen - Inspired Unity" was so impressed. (you can watch here:http://youtu.be/JtwpPT1QQQE)

I felt that how holy a family is, how it is inspired.

I was so happy to join this church and know the gospel.

If we follow the living prophets'words, we can make our families successful and happy.

9. Week 08: The Family Under Stress

Hi.

This week I learned common family stressors.

There are so many stressors that a family can encounter.

10 significant stressor events in a family system are:

- Miscommunication
- Favoritism
- Different routines
- Financial problems
- Different expectations
- Alcoholic
- The relationship with mother in law
- Cut off conversation
- Indifference
- Smart phone(Electronic devices)

The most important thing is the way that a family response to them.

In order to last a family long, a husband and wife should deal with the stressors wisely.

I hope my future spouse and I could that well.